Dr Jonni

When something's ending, reorganizing, or arriving,
and you don't want to make sense of it alone.
I work privately with people over long stretches of time as their lives reorganize. Real-time interpretation, pattern recognition across years, and companionship through the moments that don't come with instructions.

Transpersonal Psychotherapist

Soul-Timer

I walk with people as their lives rearrange.
What keeps circling back? What's dissolving? What's pressing to be born?

If you're inside a transition, a grief, a relationship that split you open, or a question that won't stop haunting you, this is where we make sense of it, not with formulas or tidy fixes, but with deep, honest interpretation and someone who holds the thread of your story.

You might be here because:

  • Something's ending, and you're not sure what's supposed to come next
  • You've lost someone, something, or a sense of who you thought you were
  • There's a truth sitting in your chest that you haven't said out loud yet
  • You keep running into the same pattern, and you're tired of pretending you don't see it
  • You want to understand why this keeps happening, not just cope with it again
  • Your life is asking something of you, and you can't quite hear what.

I'm Jonni O'Connor Gray

I didn’t choose this work. It found me, over and over again.

I've walked through my own share of losses — my parents, my siblings, my only child. I've lived inside long silences, sudden endings, complicated love, and the kind of ache that doesn't move on, just moves in.

I hold a PhD in transpersonal psychology, but the truth is, my real training has been survival, listening, remembering, and making meaning where most people stop looking. Over more than thirty-five years and tens of thousands of clients, I've walked with people through nearly every kind of threshold — death, identity loss, life reorganizing, and the awakenings that don't come with instructions.

And what I’ve learned is that grief isn’t a detour from your path. It is your path. Just a wilder, deeper one than you expected. You don’t need to fix it. You just need to walk it with someone who sees and knows the terrain.

I don't tell you what to do.

I tell you what's happening, so you can move with it consciously.

KIND WORDS

“I can't recommend Jonni's work more highly”

She speaks with a level of wisdom and clarity that your heart immediately recognizes as the truth. It's cutting-edge insights that you're not going to find anywhere else. The benefits I've received are immeasurable. If you’re willing to take a deep dive into what is possible for the integration of your human and soul existence, it’s completely life changing.

— Peta Maione

“Oodles of dots were connected!”

Jonni's offerings are of the most direct and meaningful ways I could possibly experience awakening further to soul. Their value is immeasureable.

It's like someone reaching deep, deep inside of me and pulling together the threads that lay strewn within to form the most spectacular multidimensional tapestry. It's the foundation of my life now. It's part of me in the way that breathing is. I'm so grateful.

— Lynn J.

“Jonni takes you by the hand and ever so gently nudges you to look under rocks."

How I perceive or experience something, how I relate to someone or myself, is changed in an instant. Jonni has the power to shift your life so you see with more clarity, feel with more depth, and open your heart to it all. 

— Susan LeBlanc

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